Fourteen topics
Questions to ask your partner
Real questions from the set we use, grouped by subject. Read them for free, or answer them apart on two phones and see only where you both landed the same way. 700 questions in total.
Communication & ConflictHow you argue, repair, withdraw, apologise68 questionsEmotional ClosenessFeeling seen, vulnerability, emotional availability54 questionsAffection & AppreciationHow each of you gives and receives care48 questionsTrust, Boundaries & JealousyExes, privacy, friendships, transparency46 questionsMoney & FinancesSpending, saving, debt, who pays, financial secrets51 questionsFuture & Life GoalsKids, marriage, city, career, timelines51 questionsFamily & In-LawsBoundaries, holidays, obligation, interference51 questionsDaily Life & HabitsChores, mess, sleep, routines, small friction55 questionsSocial Life & FriendsGoing out, staying in, each other's friends51 questionsIndependence & SpaceTime apart, hobbies, autonomy45 questionsRelationship MaturityAccountability, apology, growth, responsibility42 questionsValues & BeliefsReligion, politics, ethics, parenting philosophy48 questionsRomance & Physical AffectionDates, touch, keeping the spark46 questionsGrowth & ChangeAmbition, self-improvement, handling change44 questions